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ahhh.. I HATE YONG ANN!!! =X how come he always get the good things? good fortune for him huh? lolx.. i guess so.. nvm.. he gotta treat me loads!!! =)

today job shouldn't be that bad since there's more than enough staff.. but as i still manage to keep myself busy all the while.. so it turn out that i still had a rather tiring day at work.. =X

thank God they didn't keep us on to polish all the glasses for two ballrooms!!!

in the girls side, i'm and one auntie the only singaporeans.. where have all the rest of Singaporean gone to?!?! =XXX i'm now surrounded by the foreigners..

just prayed that more Singaporeans will be coming in.. at least balance out the number of Singaporean and foreigners..

anyway. i got to see Kim Ng and Wang Jian Fu today! they look great when u get to see them in person. =) hehs. they are the host or rather MC for the banquet event..



though i miss dear so much.. but seems like he's not reciprocating back..

he seems rather occupied..

anyway.. i should stop thinking too much! not good for my brain & heart.. =)




always look on the bright side of life!


Jia you! God bless..

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HE's always there...

Luke 11:9-10 "9 Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. 10 For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened."

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how come life is full of things that will amuse u every now and then..

i use to think that u were like that.. but it were likewise.. =]

good to bad.. bad to good..

trying to figure out what's the purpose of all these happening to me.. it have yet make sense to me yet..



all i know for now is to stay faithful.. to God.. and to you..

i love Yyoouu.. =)

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i miss God.. i miss the presence of him being in my life..

have been busy working these days.. feeling tired and exhausted now..

i need to rest.. no sch for me tml..

gonna collapse if i still not going to let my body have sufficient rest..

working hard again for this week!

gotta Jia You!!!

*bible reading for me?!?! no time for God? how lazy could i be... =X*

suddenly this verse came into my mind.. 'accept reality at all times..; stay cool.. stay calm'



bad news.. i miss my coming trip to Genting.. wasted $66.. arrgh.. stupid me for being soft-hearted.. =(

good news.. i was asked to go Genting this coming sat.. woohoo.. but.. still gotta pay again for the trip.. total spending to Genting.. $140 + $66 = $206

totally not worth the price.. but since its with dear i should just take things easy.. Don't worry! be happy! =)

shouldn't get too bothered and upset about money issues..!

now i realised the pain of losing hard earned money..



God.. grant me ur strength.. may i be on your favor..

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bad things came tumbling down into my life..

Thank God it didn't got worst..

feeling guilty... why didn't i seek God for help?

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expect the unexpected..


mum got admitted into the hospital; fever..
as such i didn't go to school.. =X visit her in the day.. work in the night..


it was only at the very last minute did i know that we were assigned to work at ISTANA; outdoor catering.. how cool was that? lolx. it was so unexpected.. little did i know i would get a chance to work there that soon.. haha.. Thank God everything went well. and i was blessed throughout the day.. hehs. was assigned to do clearing at the reception area, its better than serving the drinks.. =p

what's more happening is that i actually get to see PRESIDENT SR NATHAN!!! lolx. he looks almost the same as i had seen him on television... it felt so unreal when i saw him.. =X

thanks Yong Ann for working with me.. =)

lalala.. happy working.. ^^


i feel that we're drifting apart.. or am i thinking too much? seriously i have no idea..

what i know is that my feeling for you is not that strong.. its as if i could leave you any moment..

the lesser we meet the more the feeling seems to fades away;
while i tolerate not to meet you these days.. telling myself to be strong.. i somehow hardened my heart..
is that the case? or am i just giving myself reason..

i hate myself not knowing what i want..

i don't want to be strong.. i rather be weak even though it means getting hurts.. at least at that moment i know i love you..

God.. i surrender all my worries to you.. please take good care of them.. Thanks..

Thank God for all the blessing you gave me! i really appreciate them..

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The Five Love Languages

Words of Affirmation
Mark Twain once said “I can live for two months on a good compliment.” Verbal appreciation speaks powerfully to persons whose primary Love Language is “Words of Affirmation.” Simple statements, such as, “You look great in that suit,” or “You must be the best baker in the world! I love your oatmeal cookies,” are sometimes all a person needs to hear to feel loved.

Aside from verbal compliments, another way to communicate through “Words of Affirmation” is to offer encouragement. Here are some examples: reinforcing a difficult decision; calling attention to progress made on a current project; acknowledging a person’s unique perspective on an important topic. If a loved one listens for “Words of Affirmation,” offering encouragement will help him or her to overcome insecurities and develop greater confidence.

Quality Time
Quality time is more than mere proximity. It’s about focusing all your energy on your mate. A husband watching sports while talking to his wife is NOT quality time. Unless all of your attention is focused on your mate, even an intimate dinner for two can come and go without a minute of quality time being shared.

Quality conversation is very important in a healthy relationship. It involves sharing experiences, thoughts, feelings and desires in a friendly, uninterrupted context. A good mate will not only listen, but offer advice and respond to assure their mate they are truly listening. Many mates don’t expect you to solve their problems. They need a sympathetic listener.

An important aspect of quality conversation is self-revelation. In order for you to communicate with your mate, you must also be in tune with your inner emotions. It is only when you understand your emotions and inner feelings will you then be able to share quality conversation, and quality time with your mate.

Quality activities are a very important part of quality time. Many mates feel most loved when they spend physical time together, doing activities that they love to do. Spending time together will bring a couple closer, and, in the years to come, will fill up a memory bank that you can reminisce about in the future.
Whether it’s sitting on the couch and having a brief conversation or playing together in a tennis league, quality time is a love language that is shared by many. Setting aside focused time with your mate will ensure a happy marriage.

Receiving Gifts
Some mates respond well to visual symbols of love. If you speak this love language, you are more likely to treasure any gift as an expression of love and devotion. People who speak this love language often feel that a lack of gifts represents a lack of love from their mate. Luckily, this love language is one of the easiest to learn.

If you want to become an effective gift giver, many mates will have to learn to change their attitude about money. If you are naturally a spender, you will have no trouble buying gifts for your mate. However, a person who is used to investing and saving their money may have a tough time adjusting to the concept of spending money as an expression of love. These people must understand that you are investing the money not in gifts, but in deepening your relationship with your mate.

The gift of self is an important symbol of love. Sometimes all your mate desires is for someone to be there for them, going through the same trials and experiencing the same things. Your body can become a very powerful physical symbol of love.

These gifts need not to come every day, or even every week. They don’t even need to cost a lot of money. Free, frequent, expensive, or rare, if your mate relates to the language of receiving gifts, any visible sign of your love will leave them feeling happy and secure in your relationship.

Acts of Service
Sometimes simple chores around the house can be an undeniable expression of love. Even simple things like laundry and taking out the trash require some form of planning, time, effort, and energy. Just as Jesus demonstrated when he washed the feet of his disciples, doing humble chores can be a very powerful expression of love and devotion to your mate.

Very often, both pairs in a couple will speak to the Acts of Service Language. However, it is very important to understand what acts of service your mate most appreciates. Even though couples are helping each other around the house, couples will still fight because they are unknowingly communicating with each other in two different dialects. For example, a wife may spend her day washing the cars and walking her dog, but if her husband feels that laundry and dishes are a superior necessity, he may feel unloved, despite the fact that his wife did many other chores throughout the day. It is important to learn your mate’s dialect and work hard to understand what acts of service will show your love.

It is important to do these acts of service out of love and not obligation. A mate who does chores and helps out around the house out of guilt or fear will inevitably not be speaking a language of love, but a language of resentment. It’s important to perform these acts out of the kindness of your heart.

Demonstrating the acts of service can mean stepping out of the stereotypes. Acts of service require both mates to humble themselves into doing some chores and services that aren’t usually expected from their gender. However, these little sacrifices will mean the world to your mate, and will ensure a happy relationship.

Physical Touch
Many mates feel the most loved when they receive physical contact from their partner. For a mate who speaks this love language loudly, physical touch can make or break the relationship.

Sexual intercourse makes many mates feel secure and loved in a marriage. However, it is only one dialect of physical touch. Many parts of the body are extremely sensitive to stimulation. It is important to discover how your partner not only physically responds but also psychologically responds to these touches.

It is important to learn how your mate speaks the physical touch language. Some touches are irritating and uncomfortable for your mate. Take the time to learn the touches your mate likes. They can be big acts, such as back massages or lovemaking, or little acts such as touches on the cheek or a hand on the shoulder. It’s important to learn how your mate responds to touch. That is how you will make the most of this love language.

All marriages will experience crisis. In these cases, physical touch is very important. In a crisis situation, a hug can communicate an immense amount of love for that person. A person whose primary love language is physical touch would much rather have you hold them and be silent than offer any advice.

It is important to remember that this love language is different for everyone. What type of touch makes you feel secure is not necessarily what will make your partner happy. It is important to learn each other’s dialects. That way you can make the most of your hugging, kissing, and other physical contacts.

**source by Gary Chapman. =)**

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The Five Love Languages

My primary love language is probably
Quality Time
with a secondary love language being
Acts of Service.

Complete set of results

Quality Time:		10
Acts of Service:		7
Physical Touch:		6
Receiving Gifts:		4
Words of Affirmation:		3

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Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don't understand our partner's requirements, or even our own. We all have a "love tank" that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others.

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Pictures that i took recently.. weeee...

singtel; work.. me & Jolene.. =)

listening to a boring talk with dear.. ZzZz..

hehs. it's been a long time since we took pics together.. Melissa.PeiSi.Ruth..

God Bless!!! ^^

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*tired* have been busy working these days. work till really late at night.. =XXX

had a really weird yet happy dream..

dream of a gal and a guy.. the gal helped the guy in many ways.. end up falling in love with him unknowingly.. and the guy who were so busy doing his stuff didn't notice the goodness of this girl.. till one day, he suddenly got awaken and realise he too had had liking for her after so much she had done for him.

in acknowledgment to that.. out a sudden.. the guy then gave his first kiss to this gal.. the gal was of course shock yet filled with joy and excitement at the same time. =) they kissed and hug tightly together.. after which the guy actually hugged and swing the girl round and round with joy as if he had won a trophy or something like that.. at that moment, i was able to feel the happiness that she had..

that everlasting happiness or rather joy that i had never experience before. it felt so real yet unrealistic.. so strong that i almost took it for real.. =/



had a date with hubby today.. =)

after working hard for the past few days, i finally get to relax and meet up with him; miss you badly for the past few days.. =X

went for service @ New Creation Church with hubby.. we were ever so blessed. hehs.
just as we thought there were no more seats available for us, there were ushers coming to us telling us there are seats for the 2 of us.. haha.. didn't get the seats leaded by the 1st usher, thank God he blessed us, he sent another usher leading us to the seats for us! how cool was that? haha. He's ever so reliable.. =)))

after which, i went back to Shangri La to get my pay, and i admit i'm a bit prideful for not telling the truth to her.. *sorry*

seems that me and xiao qi are so fated to be friend each other.. haha. saw her at the office waiting for the voucher to be given out. and we had great chat! =D it was then i know that the xiao bai guy was his bf; her bf is really really fair.. lolx.

had my dinner with hubby at Heeren wanton shop.. haha.. suddenly feel so addicted to eat there whenever i'm at town. =x

as it was still early after our dinner, i then suggest watching a movie @ Cineleisure.

the movie " Lust; Caution" was so-so. haha.. though it always keeps me hanging wanting to know what's going to happen next, but i really didn't expect such a lame ending.. in the end all the good people die.. -.-..

wondering.. am i happy?? haha.. silly questions..

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OMG!!! I can't believe that I actually slept all the way till 4pm++! =XXX I'm such a PIGZZ!!!

Sorry gals.. told you that i will be coming to school end up slept till so late! i hate myself for that! =(

haven't finish completing my PP.. i'm as good as died.. =XXX

gotta buck up and jia you!!!

i love happy ending.. i miss you.

-no man is worth your tears.. the one who do wouldn't make you cry..- i wonder..

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isn't it sweetz?? =)

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Story of Mary & John..

"I hate you -- get out of my life!" she said when he finally arrived. She was furious about his coming home two hours late to a cold dinner on the table. The candles had burned out, and she ate alone. This was not the first time he stood her up. You'd think she would learn! (You'd think he would learn!)

She loved him so much she was enraged, and told him she wanted a divorce and for him to leave and never come back! Obviously to John, Mary no longer loved him, so he left, hurt and upset, and spent the night elsewhere. Mary was even more hurt from his staying away all night.

Of course, she loved him very much. She understood that. But how could she love him and hate him at the same time? She wondered, and he wondered, and with no clear answer they drifted apart.

She didn't understand that love is more than a feeling of pleasure. Love is also an emotional investment. Mary's anger meant that John was very important to her. Otherwise she wouldn't care at all. Anger is an inevitable feeling in any relationship . . . but you have to know how to use the energy to turn upsets into opportunities.

The truth is, many people are confused about how to have a close relationship that works. . . .

This story definitely sounds familiar to me and i believe to most of the couples..

isn't it because of love that's why we would get so angry of him or her when they did something that disappoint us badly?

somehow it sounds so ironic..

thinking again.. a moment of rashness due to anger would result us to do silly things..

oh God.. i just prayed that I would be able to stay calm and patient in all situations..

really hoping that i wouldn't do silly things that will drift me apart from you...

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